Celebrating Carmel's Stephanie Kleiner: The 2026 IndyStar Sports Mom of the Year

Introduction: A New Kind of Super Mom

In the realm of sports, the term "Super Mom" often refers to the women who balance family commitments with their children's athletic pursuits. Carmel High School's head softball coach, Stephanie Kleiner, embodies this spirit to the fullest. Recently honored as the 2026 IndyStar Sports Mom of the Year, Stephanie's multifaceted role in her daughters' lives mirrors her dedication to the athletes under her guidance.

The Heart of a Community

Whether she's guiding third graders at Forest Dale Elementary or mentoring high school players, Kleiner is recognized not just for her coaching prowess but also for her deep understanding of the emotional and tactical aspects of sports. Her daughter Jayden, a senior who plays for the Carmel softball team, describes her as a “natural leader” who commands attention and respect.

“When she steps into the room, people listen to her,” says Jayden, reflecting the impact her mother has on her family and the sports community.

A Transformative Coaching Approach

Since taking the reins of the Carmel softball program, Kleiner has prioritized establishing connections. One of her significant contributions has been revitalizing the "Pups" program, creating a bridge between youth players and the high school team. She noted, “When I took the job, there was a huge disconnect.” Through her dedicated efforts, she not only focused on the logistics of coaching — selecting players, scheduling games — but also ensured that young athletes had a seat at the table, garnering enthusiasm and valuable experiences while cheering for their high school idols from the dugout.

Teaching Beyond the Game

Kleiner's teaching and coaching philosophies resonate deeply with her family values. Her husband, Lee Kleiner, summarizes her approach: “I'll coach, and you just tell your kids you love them at night.” It's a philosophy that crosses from the classroom to the softball diamond, highlighting the importance of nurturing relationships.

Going Above and Beyond

Kleiner's dedication extends beyond coaching hours. Her commitment to her players is evident even during personal trials, shaping her into a coach who champions not just athletic prowess but emotional resilience. For instance, amid a recent tragedy involving a young player from a neighboring school who passed away, she sought to honor the family and bring the team closer together.

“The relationships I've made with people that I wouldn't have come into contact with before ... all of that life experience in one specific environment is a huge takeaway for me as a person,” Kleiner reflects.

Her Family's Support System

The Kleiner family thrives in a busy, structured environment. Between her teaching duties and various coaching commitments, such as being an assistant director at the Indiana Magic Gold program, Kleiner seamlessly integrates family values into her hectic schedule. As her daughters chase their dreams, they're all burgeoning under the same tough-love philosophy.

A Launchpad for Young Talent

With systematic training and a focus on leadership, her older daughter Jayden is set to continue her softball journey at Michigan, embodying the core values Stephanie has instilled. “My mom really pushed for us to strive for greatness,” Jayden said, emphasizing the importance of the support system fostered within the Pups program. “Carmel wouldn't be what it is without the Pups program.”

Balancing Acts: Parenting and Coaching

Yet, it's not just about wins and losses for Kleiner. In her eyes, every practice and every game serves up invaluable life lessons, preparing her daughters and athletes for the world outside of sports. “You don't always control the hand you are dealt, but you can control the reaction,” Kleiner says, instilling a sense of accountability in her players.

The Power of Community

At the heart of Kleiner's coaching approach is her belief in community and collaboration. She has cultivated an environment where athletes not just grow as players but evolve as individuals who uplift one another. Local parents, like Heidi Stan, recognize this impact as they see the bonds formed between their daughters and the supportive nature fostered by Kleiner. “Stephanie has raised her oldest daughter not only to be a talented player, but to be a leader and mentor,” Stan shares.

Conclusion: Why We Celebrate Her

In celebrating Stephanie Kleiner, we're not just highlighting an outstanding coach, but also the heart of a mother, a teacher, and a community leader who molds young lives through her dedication and unyielding spirit. Her story is a testament to the power of sports in leading young athletes to find their identities while respecting the game and each other.

Previous 'Sports Mom of Year' Winners

• 2025: Tamika Beeler
• 2024: Katie Hupfer
• 2023: Crystal Clark
• 2022: Susie Strange
• 2021: Kris Schepers