Dancing as a Gateway to Joy
On a family trip to Turkey, amidst a deserted hotel where staff outnumbered guests, we stumbled upon a transformative experience: dancing. In the sultry Mediterranean night, we joined hotel staff in a spontaneous celebration, abandoning our dinner plates for the joyful rhythm of traditional Turkish music. Each shimmy and shoulder thrust re-awakened our spirits, highlighting the neglected joys of physical movement.
The Cultural Roots of Dance
In my formative years in the Soviet Union, dance was woven into the fabric of life—no family gathering was complete without spirit-lifting music and spontaneous swaying. But here in the U.S., dance often feels restricted to formal venues. However, that summer night in Turkey reminded me that joy can be found in every corner of life if we dare to pursue it.
“Dance is a trespass of boundaries, an immigration into spaces and forms that previously held only air or a partner.”
Inspiring Connection Through Movement
My daughter, Agnes, witnessed not only her parents jettisoning life's burdens but stepping into their roles as dancers. To capture that joy, I arranged flamenco lessons during our trip to Spain, immersing ourselves in culture while bonding through rhythm. Since that moment, every family trip transformed into an opportunity for dance, whether it meant break-dancing in London or shaking off the frost on the snowy streets of Salzburg.
The Healing Power of Dance
Movement is a remedy: When life crushes our spirits—career demands, concerns of our political landscape, the weight of a rapidly changing planet—dance has become our much-needed balancer. Engage with your children, embrace the hilarity of kitchen dance-offs; rediscovering our bodies amidst music has proven essential. In times like these, where uncertainty reigns, allowing ourselves to dance is critical.
We can momentarily forget the shadows of our world, allowing hope for a brighter future to dance alongside us.
What Dance Teaches Us About Life
As we sway to the rhythm of songs from Salt-N-Pepa or The Rolling Stones, we find ourselves rediscovering a freedom buried under the weight of responsibilities. Our children, in their spontaneity, remind us that joy and movement belong together. Dance teaches resilience; it encourages us to reclaim the lightheartedness that adulthood too often suppresses.
A New Dance for a New Era
In the bustling streets echoing with the noise of modernity, I find importance in these fleeting moments. I ache for a world built not solely upon screens, but one where bodies are animated by dance. As I watch my daughter twirl, blissfully unaware of the political turmoil that shrouds us, I am filled with hope. It is our dance that distinguishes us in these uncertain times.
Conclusion: Dance as a Revolutionary Act
Whether it's a planned excursion or a spontaneous kitchen jig, let us not lose sight of the beauty found in movement. The healing nature of dance is not a luxury; it is a necessity. In this new year, I urge everyone to embrace dance—not just as entertainment but as an act of hope and connection. Through dance, we reawaken our spirits, promising ourselves a journey filled with joy, resilience, and, above all, movement.
Source reference: https://www.nytimes.com/2026/01/04/opinion/dancing-happiness-new-year.html




