Why Morning Commutes Should Be PDA-Free Zones

Introduction: The Case Against PDAs

In a world where personal expression is celebrated, I find myself at a crossroads. Public displays of affection (PDAs) have their moments, but the early morning commute should not be one of them. With a packed train and the smell of breakfast in the air, is this really the time for hugging and kissing?

As a happily married individual and a lover of all things romantic, I can genuinely appreciate love when I see it. My life is surrounded by couples, many of my friends share long-term partnerships, and my days are filled with laughter and joy because of love. However, this passion doesn't cloud my judgment when it comes to the appropriateness of sharing such sentiments in public spaces—particularly during the morning rush.

The Morning Commute: A Time for Focus

It's an odd choice to indulge in affection right before heading to work. The morning commute should be a time for focus, for preparation—perhaps even meditation before the demanding hours ahead. Instead, we witness couples tangled in each other's arms, seemingly oblivious to the surroundings. If there's any particular time for decorum and restraint, 8 AM on a Tuesday is it.

A Recipe for Distracted Commuters

Imagine the scene: a crowded subway car, swaying with every curve, yet amidst it all, there's a couple obliviously rolling their eyes at the rest of us while they exchange lovey-dovey gestures. It's enough to distract any commuter trying to plan their day.

• Loss of Focus: Morning commuters, myself included, are often focused, perhaps mulling over tasks from the to-do list or gearing up for the first meeting of the day. Poor souls trying to get their minds around the day's challenges shouldn't have to face an impromptu romantic display.
• Unwritten Rules of Public Spaces: We've established unwritten rules about maintaining a certain level of decorum. It's a public space, inarguably shared with diverse individuals each carrying their own priorities.

The Affective Science Behind Affection

It's worth noting that numerous studies exist indicating the positive benefits of affection: lower levels of stress, increased happiness, and bolstered mental health. These scientific affirmations about love are difficult to argue against. However, can these benefits justify indiscretions across public transit? I think not.

Suggesting Alternatives

Is there a middle ground? Absolutely. I propose that lovebirds contain their affection to the privacy of their homes or to moments that don't coincide with public obligations. Let them engage on the weekends or embrace in quiet corners after work. Maybe save the heart-stirring displays for a candlelit dinner, not a crowded bus seat.

Conclusion: Respect the Commute

To those who love deeply and embrace openly, I applaud you. But let's maintain a mutual respect for personal space during the morning rush, allowing everyone to navigate their daily grind without the distractions of excessive affection.

“In love, there's a time and place for everything—let's keep breakfast sacred.”

Public spaces mandate consideration for our neighbors. The morning commute should remain a sanctum for thought, focus, and the delicate balancing act of daily responsibilities. Let's keep our hugs and kisses for later, shall we?